Study Skills & New Technology

Do What You Love: 5 Steps to Happiness

In order to live a happy life you must do what you love. I thought I had this figured out, but I was actually confusing “Do what you love” with “Do what you’re good at.” In high school I was good at editing and producing short films. I was also good at science but I didn’t love either of those things. As a freshmen in college I thought I wanted to major in Radio Television and Film based on my interest in film but I found very quickly that I hated analyzing old films and working on group video projects. I never wanted to move to California or work as a cameraman nor did I enjoy talking about famous directors or actors.

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Either in school or at home, I was brainwashed into thinking that being good at something means you should pursue it. This simply isn’t true. After changing majors and finding my true passion, I can honestly say, “Do what you love, and the money will follow.” If you are the student who is worried about making money after college, stop and listen to what I have to say.

1. Find Your Love

Sometimes the hardest part of this journey is deciding what you love. It helps to think back to high school or earlier. Think about the things you truly enjoyed. It could have been playing sports or doing art. Maybe you were in theater or Spanish club. Whatever you truly enjoyed in high school, or whatever you’re interested in now might be what you love.

Here is a good test. How would you feel if your love didn’t exist? If your school offered a major called “Your Love”, would you major in it? Think about your answers to these questions. When choosing your Love, try to think instinctively. What does your heart say?

2. Don’t Be Somebody Else

So many people try to be someone they’re not because they either admire someone else for their achievements or want to be like them. Here’s the problem – if you try to be someone you’re not, you’re not going to posses the talent, skill, or passion needed to excel. Many students want to be like their parents or their idols, but the truth is, everyone is different. Focus on finding what is special about you.

3. Never Do It for The Money

In some cases, students feel they need to pursue lucrative careers because they “need the money.” This is understandable, but keep in mind, you don’t always have to do it for money. In fact, many students say they would rather choose a lower salary if they could do what they love. In the end, you will have to decide if sacrificing your dream is worth the money.

4. Don’t Listen to Other People

This was my biggest issue, and I beg you not to follow my same path. One of the biggest mistakes you can make in college is doing what your friends, parents, or teachers tell you to do. Everyone should take time to listen to others advice, but don’t make decisions based on what other people think would be good for you. This will leave you unsatisfied, confused, and frustrated. Find what you love and go at it full force. Don’t let anyone derail you from your destiny.

5. Believe in Yourself

This is the section where I tell you why you should do what you love. If you take the time to find your passion you have to keep at it no matter what.

I started college as a confused, frustrated and unmotivated RTF student. It took time for me to realize what I loved, but once I did, I was much happier, inspired and ready to tackle life head on.

I decided to start CampusByte because I love technology, and as a college student, I believe students should be able to use technology to help them become better students. I didn’t know what starting a website was going to do with my life, but now, months later, I’m a successful blogger making a substantial income online.

So remember, “Do what you love, and the money will follow.” Let me know what you think in the comments below.

2 Comments

  1. Posted March 8, 2010 at 12:07 pm | Permalink

    When I was little I always wanted to do business because that is what my dad did. Now that I’m grow up it is funny that my dreams haven’t swayed. I remember the first time I went to Hut’s hamburgers in Austin and across the street was GSD&M’s Idea City. I never knew what they did but I have wanted to work there forever. Now that I know what they do (ad copywriting) I can apply myself to study more in that field and maybe get an internship there in the future.

    • Posted March 8, 2010 at 12:21 pm | Permalink

      It’s interesting how many students end up “Doing what their parents did”. Genetics might play a role in that. I’d be interested to learn more about this subject. Thanks for the comment Tim.

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